Romans 14.19-23
Many a Christian likes to point to
True, we’re free to do what doesn’t violate our consciences. But, more importantly, more the point of this chapter, we’re not free to do what violates others’ consciences.
Their under-developed consciences are gonna bug them about it, and it’s gonna monkey with their Christian growth. They’re not gonna trust their consciences, instead of learning to hear the Holy Spirit through ’em. Rather than naturally move on to the next step, they’re gonna think every next step has to be offensive and uncomfortable—exactly like we made ’em feel by demanding they “grow up” too soon—and sometimes take “next steps” that don’t actually go in Jesus’s direction. Then live with those errors for a while… and hopefully
Worst case, they’re gonna ditch all the Christians who are “leading them astray,” and go find a church full of fervent
Ultimately this sort of callous disregard for newbies’ feelings tears them up, not builds them up, and Paul wants us to build one another up. As he says right here:
Romans 14.19-23 KWL 19 So for peace, then,- we should also pursue building one another up.
20 Don’t destroy God’s work over food!- “Everything is clean,”
- but it’s evil for a person
- to eat what trips them¹ up.
21 It’s good to not eat meat- nor drink wine
- nor whatever trips up your¹ fellow Christian,
- {or makes them scandalized or sick.}
22 You¹ have a belief of your¹ own:- Have it between yourself and God.
- You who don’t condemn yourselves¹
- for what you think is right
- are awesome.
23 One who still doubts it’s okay when they¹ eat,- was condemned because it’s not their belief.
- Everything which isn’t their belief
- is sin.
Instead of telling them, “Oh that’s not a sin; do it anyway” we need to recognize for them, for now, it is sin. And accommodate them, not mock them for their immaturity. Build them up till they can recognize on their own it’s not sin—not impatiently tell them, “You need to function on my level,” and ignore they’re not ready.