John 11.17-27.
Lazarus’s sisters Martha and Mary come up elsewhere in the gospels. It’s in a story where Mary sits at Jesus’s feet during a lesson, which was not appropriate for women in their sexist culture, and Martha tells Jesus to shoo her away and make Mary help her. But Jesus tells Martha to leave her be; that’s exactly where Mary belongs.
Although they don’t always realize why Mary’s the good. Often these sermons only talk about Mary worshiping at Jesus’s feet—as if Mary was only fangirling over Jesus while he was at the serious business of training apostles. That’s not how rabbinic lessons worked. The rabbi makes a statement; the students challenge the statement based on their bible knowledge; the rabbi defends his statement based on his bible knowledge. Those at the rabbi’s feet actively participated in this. Meaning Mary was challenging Jesus, quoting bible, and showing an intellectual capacity that impressed Jesus so much he wanted her there. Valued her there.
Generally the lessons go: Martha frets about so many things which are ultimately irrelevant, but Mary sits at Jesus’s feet. Let’s all be like Mary. Martha bad, Mary good. But no, Martha wasn’t bad—she just didn’t realize she likewise had the right to sit at the Lord’s feet, same as Mary, and learn from Jesus, instead of doing busywork like her culture expected her to.
Anyway, by the time Lazarus died, Martha apparently had learned from Jesus, ’cause she makes some of the more profound faith statements in the bible. Her faith didn’t go heave-ho after her brother died, like we see in so many people; it was strong as ever. When she met with Jesus, she didn’t scream at him about not being there to save Lazarus, as some of the lousier Jesus movies depict her. She still trusts him. She knows the Father listens to him; she still believes he can do something. She still calls him Christ, God’s son.
John 11.17-27 KWL 17 So, on arriving, Jesus finds Lazarus- is already four days in the sepulcher.
18 Bethany is near Jerusalem;- like 15 stadia. [2⅓ km]
19 Many of the Judeans came to Martha and Mary- so they might comfort them about their brother.
20 So Martha, once she hears Jesus arrives, meets him.- Mary is sitting in the house.
21 So Martha says to Jesus, “Master, if you were here,- my brother never would have died.
22 [But] I now know whatever you¹ ask God,- God will give you.¹”
23 Jesus tells her, “Your brother will rise again.”24 Martha tells him, “I know he’ll rise—- in the resurrection, on the last day.”
25 Jesus tells her, “I’m the resurrection.- I’m life.
- One who trusts in me, if they¹ die, will live.
26 And everyone who lives and trusts in me- ought never, ever die in the age to come.
- Do you¹ believe this?”
27 Martha tells him, “Yes, Master.- I’ve believed you’re¹ the Christ,
- God’s son coming into the world.”
Other Christians despair at their great losses, yet Martha still totally trusts Jesus. That’s huge. Let’s all be like Martha.