
Ephesians 6.1-9.
Properly, the command
Parents want our kids to obey us. Isn’t that what honoring your parents
But remember: Paul was comparing relationships between parents and kids, and slaveholders and slaves, to that of
Yeah, I’ve heard various preachers claim we’re not slaves anymore; that we stopped being slaves as soon as God adopted us, or that our relationship with God
Cultural bias means when we think of slaves, we think of American slavery: Slaves were treated as property, as cattle, instead of as human beings. Which wasn’t how the ancients thought of their slaves: Slaves were a lower caste, and people are generally awful to members of lower castes. Slaves had few to no rights. But they were still human beings, and some masters were benevolent instead of despotic.
God in particular. Yes he’s the L
Christians who didn’t grow up in free countries—like the early Protestants, who lived in nations with slaves, who themselves lived under absolute monarchs—seem to have lost sight of this. That’s why some of their views of God’s sovereignty are so distorted. Subjects were expected to “love” their king in a patriotic way; not
And if parents had this sort of love for their children, and slaveholders for their slaves, what ought those relationships look like? Keep that in mind when you read Paul’s instructions regarding kids and slaves.
I should point out: Since Paul didn’t actually tell kids to obey their parents, and slaves to obey their masters, it seems wholly inappropriate for Christians to teach
Listen to your godparents.
Ephesians 6.1-4 KWL - 1 Children, closely listen to your godparents in the Master, for this is righteous.
- 2 “Honor your father and mother” —which is the first command to include a promise—
- 3 “so things might go well for you, and you’ll be in the land a long time.”
Ex 20.12 - 4 Parents, don’t enrage your children,
- but raise them in the Master’s training and advice.
No doubt there are gonna be people who object to my translating
The reason I didn’t render gonéfsin as the more typical or literal “parents” is because Paul called ’em gonéfsin
And one of the principles of
This, Paul said, is righteous. Because our godparents (unless
Now for parents. And in this case Paul used the usual Greek word
So don’t enrage your kids. Love them. Be the sort of godparent you wish you always had: Be like Jesus.
Listen to your bosses.
Free countries don’t have slaves. (Shouldn’t, anyway.) So Christians sometimes figure the advice to slaves and slaveholders don’t apply anymore. But they do, in that they apply to bosses and employees.
Yes, in a free country, employees can supposedly tell their bosses, “I quit,” leave their jobs, and go find another one—preferably a better one. In theory they can. In reality, it doesn’t always work that way. Some employees are under contract, and can’t quit without losing a prohibitive amount of money. More often, employees have no better job to go to: They’re making minimum wage under one awful boss, and the only other jobs open to them are likewise minimum wage under a different awful boss. Or, in a recession, there are no other jobs. The popular American myth is there are always opportunities for advancement, and if you can’t find a better job you can always create one. The cold hard fact is you can’t always afford to create one, and success isn’t a matter of hard work
So when it comes to bosses and employees, there are a lot of similarities between slaveholders and slaves. One has to deal with bosses, same as slaves had to deal with their masters: We have to answer and be accountable to somebody. Bosses have to supervise employees, same as slaveholders had to oversee their slaves.
But in both master/slave and boss/employee relationships, God expects those in power to treat those without power
Of course,
Well. Whether bosses are truly righteous, or faking it for public acclaim, God still expects Christian employees to be righteous ourselves. Regardless of who our bosses are. That’s why Paul’s instructions are for slaves to listen to their masters—and remember, most masters in his scenario weren’t Christian. They were pagan. They didn’t give a rip about their slaves’ well-being. And it doesn’t make any difference: Be good slaves anyway.
Ephesians 6.5-8 KWL - 5 Slaves, closely listen to the masters over your flesh
- with respect, trembling, sincerity in your hearts—like you do Christ.
- 6 Not as carefully-watched slaves, like people-pleasers,
- but like Christ’s slaves, doing God’s will from one’s soul.
- 7 Serve with good will, like as one does to the Master, and not only for humans,
- 8 each of you knowing when anyone does good works,
- they’re rewarded by the Master—whether slaves or freemen.
Now you know Christian slaveholders abused this scripture greatly: They took it upon themselves to enforce these instructions for their own benefit. Power corrupts, remember? But Paul didn’t stop with his instructions to slaves:
Ephesians 6.9 KWL - Masters, do the same for your slaves. Stop the threats.
- Know their and your Master is in heaven, and favoritism isn’t how he works.
If masters were unrighteous towards their slaves, God judged ’em for it. If you couldn’t tell, from slaveholders’ behavior towards their slaves, that these were Christians—if they produced no
Yes, God has his favorites, and when it comes to the End, God totally plays favorites: His kids inherit his kingdom, and everybody else stays outside. So why did Paul say favoritism isn’t how God works?
Leviticus 19.15 KWL - “Don’t do wrong in your judging. Don’t lift up the poor’s faces.
- Don’t honor the powerful’s faces. Judge your neighbor righteously.”
We’re not to show favoritism to the poor just ’cause they’re poor. Nor are we to suck up to the rich and powerful. Right is right; justice is justice. Don’t pervert it because you wanna stick it to the Man—or because you’re hoping to some day become the Man. Don’t fall into the traps of either the progressives or the conservatives. Follow Jesus.
So as employees, honor your bosses like you’d honor Jesus: Show them respect, do your job well, and if they never reward your accomplishments, rest assured Jesus will reward you. And as bosses, treat your subordinates as Jesus treats you: Uplift instead of knocking down. “Stop the threats,” as Paul put it: Negative enforcement is way easier than positive enforcement, but it quickly creates bitter, vengeful, disloyal employees. Loving your employees is harder, but it gradually creates the best workers. Strive for that.