
Sometimes people who believe they’re Christian
Sometimes people whom we believe are Christian aren’t really:
So when these not-actually-Christian folks
Thing is, when real Christians leave church or Jesus for much the same reasons, many a Christian will figure it’s for the very same reason the not-really-Christians did: They, too, were never really Christian to begin with. They were faking it. Pretending. Going though all the motions but never
I mean… that has to be the case, right? Because once saved, always saved. Right?
Well I wish that were so, but the scriptures indicate it’s not.
Hebrews 6.4-6 KWL - 4 Can’t be done: Those who were once given light,
- tasted the heavenly gift, became partners with the Holy Spirit,
- 5 tasted the goodness of God’s word, and the age to come’s powers 6 —and fall away.
- To restore them to repentance again, crucifying and humiliating the Son of God for them:
- Can’t be done.
Sometimes people do have living, saving relationships with God.
But they quit Jesus.
Pride goeth before destruction.
People can quit Jesus. I wish they couldn’t.
Same as I wish compatible married couples could work out their differences and not divorce. Same as I wish favorite bands wouldn’t break up over money or personality conflicts or drug use. If I had
I’m not gonna
He doesn’t want ’em to. We see examples throughout the bible of him warning the Hebrews not to. Yet they did. And people still do.
It’s a mad, wild, crazy act. It makes no sense to me, ’cause I’ve seen up close how good God is. Why would I ever want to quit? But I’m not those people; I don’t know what’s going through their heads. I just know they quit Jesus.
The only way certain Christians can make sense of the mad act of quitting Jesus… is to rationalize it away by saying, “Well they must never have been Christians to begin with. ’Cause a real Christian would never. We have more sense than that.”
Yeah, that’s pride talking. I don’t know that we do have more sense than that. I’ve seen lots of people whom I thought had sense, yet they chose to do some pretty dumb things. Like blow up their marriages, get hooked on alcohol or drugs or gambling or sex, quit perfectly good jobs, vote for morons, and of course ditch Jesus. And I don’t presume I’m better than they: If it weren’t
That’s the key, I believe: We gotta stay humble.
Those who quit Jesus, don’t. You talk with any ex-Christian about why they left Jesus, and they’ll always, always state they learned better, or now they know better, or they discovered better. And they’ll be super condescending towards those of us who stick with Jesus: “You’ll learn better too, someday. Once you stop denying reality. Once you accept the facts.” They’re convinced they’re right and we’re wrong.
Presuming they were always this way, that they never did know Jesus to begin with, presumes real Christians can’t make such mad decisions; that the Holy Spirit’s either conditioned us to know better, or reprogrammed us and deleted some of our free will. It gives us more credit than we deserve. Christians—real, honest, truly-know-Jesus Christians, have done all sorts of outrageous things. I’ve heard the confessions; we can be pretty messed up sometimes. Quitting Jesus appears to be beyond the pale, but really it’s not. (I’m not gonna say Christians have done worse; there isn’t worse. I’ll just say plenty of us do stuff that’s nearly as bad.)
Presuming Christians can’t quit Jesus, is making the very same mistake any apostate does: It’s again presuming we’re right and they’re wrong, instead of recognizing we’re all wrong. It’s presuming we’re special and they’re not.
In reality, apostate Christians are in the very same boat as non-apostate Christians: None of us know better, which is why we need to follow Jesus. The difference is apostates used to trust Jesus, and decided they don’t anymore. Non-apostates still kinda do, or are trying to. But if we ever get too full of ourselves—if we forget to remain humble, and embrace pride instead—we’re gonna go wrong. The best-case scenario is to go a little wrong, like Calvinists. Worst case? We leave Jesus behind and
The thought we have that much say in our relationship with God, and might ruin all if we have one bad day, terrifies certain Christians. ’Cause we know what sort of screw-ups we are. It’s far easier and more comfortable to imagine ex-Christians were never truly Christian. Far more pleasant to imagine we’re special and apostasy-proof. All because of our pride.
Sometimes the elect quit God.
The L
Now some of ’em didn’t want this relationship. Or wanted it on their own terms: They wanted to be in charge instead of Moses. Or they’d follow the L
Y’might argue, and many have, the rebellious Hebrews who never repented were never really the L
Election didn’t mean the Hebrews would never, ever quit God. Plenty still did. And election likewise doesn’t mean “true Christians” will never, ever quit God either. Too many of us still do.
If the idea makes you anxious—“I don’t ever wanna quit God!”—okay. I get that. I used to have that worry too when I was a kid. I grew out of it because I realized I need Jesus far too much to ever quit him. (Like Simon Peter once said, where else am I gonna go?
You know better than to think you know better. (There’s a fun little paradox for you.)
