
John 13.34-35 KJV - 34 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you, that ye also love one another. 35 By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
Lest we miss the point, Jesus says “Love one another” thrice. It’s not unimportant to him. It is unimportant to Christians however. We’ve really pooched this one. On a global level.
We don’t love our fellow Christians in our churches. They’re family, and sometimes we acknowledge they’re family… but they’re kinda like the family we barely tolerate for family reunions. We don’t interact with them outside our church buildings. We don’t know what’s going on with their personal lives. We don’t care, either. We’re too busy.
We don’t love our fellow Christians in the other churches. In many cases we convinced ourselves half of them aren’t real Christians anyway. Their denominations teach weird, inappropriate things. They’re too legalistic to really love Jesus, or they’re too loosey-goosy with God’s righteous standards to really love Jesus. They’re not Spirit-filled enough… or they think they’re more Spirit-filled than we are, but really they’ve just confused their weird fleshly impulses with the Spirit.
We don’t love our fellow Christians in far-off lands. If the nearby Christians aren’t Christian enough for us, foreign Christians definitely aren’t. Their customs are too bizarre. Their people are dirt poor, and we wealthy Christians are so unconsciously used to social Darwinist and
We barely love our neighbors anyway. And besides, we’re busy! We have jobs. We have kids to raise, and drive to their afterschool activities. We have dates to keep, buddies to stay connected with, movies to watch, teams to support, video games to play… We “have lives.” Jesus understands; he knows all, and knows how busy we are. We haven’t time. We’ll do it once we finally have time, like when we retire, or after we’re resurrected.
What happens when we do?
When Christians cut the crap and love one another—really love one another—it astounds people.
It makes the newspaper. Churches working together? Churches, of different denominations, of different traditions, contributing towards each other’s ministries? Working together to do good deeds in their community? Paying each other’s bills?
Christians, of different economic and social and political and racial backgrounds, apologizing for their misdeeds, and their ancestors’ misdeeds? Reconciling? Helping one another? Restoring one another? Building one another up, in more ways than encouragement alone? When do people ever do that?
We don’t. Which is why it makes news. ’Cause wow, here are some Christians who actually act like Christ.
I know loads of Christians who argue government has no business doing such things, and that it’s not their job; it’s for charities alone. I profoundly disagree. In part because such Christians don’t adequately fund their favorite charities… if they even give at all. But
The level of love we tend to see among Christians is the non-committal, socially affectionate, hug-’em-in-church but do-squat-for-them-elsewhere behavior
As I said, Jesus said “Love each other” thrice. He meant it. We’re to love everyone, but start with one another, and love as far as Jesus does. When we see this fruit in Christians, it proves we’re Christians.
When we don’t see it, it proves we’re not.
