
I have certain people whom I follow on social media, who love love love the hashtag #blessed. They have a nice meal, or get a nice view of the sunset, so they post photos of it on Instagram, tagged #blessed. They find a sweet parking spot in front of their building, so they xeet about it and tag it #blessed. The kids achieve something at school, or make ’em a craft, or otherwise give ’em a fun day instead of screaming their head off because Dad won’t give ’em Froot Loops for dinner; it’s on Facebook, tagged #blessed.
Every time they feel blessed, they gotta post and tag it. Even for little minor stupid stuff. “Drove to work; nothing but green lights all the way! #blessed”
I know what brought this on for one of ’em… ’cause she said so. A few months ago her pastor challenged the people of her church to notice all the blessings God sent their way. He blesses us a lot, y’know. And a lot of us first-worlders are
Thing is, some months ago she took her husband to this really fancy restaurant for his birthday. She posted a photo on Instagram wearing a nice dress, with a nice plate of shrimp in front of her, nice wine, nice view of the ocean behind her, and the tag #blessed. (I’ll just point out her husband, whose day and life they were celebrating, isn’t even in the photo. Likely he took it.)
Okay: God didn’t grant her this experience. Her husband didn’t surprise her with it. She planned it; she paid for it. I hope she could afford it, and doesn’t have to pay off credit cards for the next several months, but even so: Is this a blessing?
Some would say yes, others no. One could argue the blessing comes from being able to have such experiences: She has a job which can fund these activities, grant the free time, and a kind husband whose life she’d like to celebrate. Although one doesn’t have to celebrate it in that particular way. Nor post a selfie on Instagram.
I can speculate about her motives, but for
Since pagans have a deficient relationship with God (as even Christians will
Are these people blessed? Did God grant ’em these blessings? Or did they really just bless themselves?
Good Christian vibes.
Every once in a while I get rebuked by a fellow Christian for talking about vibes. They think
But I catch Christians talking about the very same idea all the time. They get away with it by swapping out the Christianese word “spirit,” and talk about the spirit of a person, spirit of this place, spirit of an object. Not that they’re claiming there’s
And the usual expectation they have of good Christians is we oughta have a positive spirit. We should be vibe spirit, it’ll get our fellow Christians to feel the same way, and maybe give off that vibe spirit themselves.
And if we give off that good vibe spirit, God’ll reward us! With blessings.
It’s a variation of the
No, God does not work that way. You do realize plenty of “blessed” wealthy people have no relationship with God at all, right? Wealth isn’t a sign of God’s favor, and claiming it is, is
We might be trying to practice more gratitude, like my friend’s pastor challenged her to do. But we’ll get tempted to go out of our way, and create “blessings.” We’ll eat fancier food than we ordinarily would, and thank God for this “blessing”—even though he didn’t grant it; our credit cards did. We might never notice we blessed ourselves. We might likewise grant ourselves better vacations, more prestigious social functions, and other “blessings” which are the products of our wallets instead of our Father.
We’ll never even notice the slide from gratitude to ostentation. Probably in the very same way
Maybe it’s best we keep some of this to ourselves.
Okay yes, we should absolutely be grateful for what God gives us. When we’re comfortable (and not because these are inappropriate comforts, nor that we came by those comforts by inappropriate means), we should appreciate how God makes our comforts possible. He’s the source of all our blessings—and most definitely not just material blessings. In fact he specializes in spiritual blessings, and has granted us all of them.
As for publicly thanking God for our blessings… well
Matthew 6.5-6 NLT - 5 “When you pray, don’t be like the hypocrites who love to pray publicly on street corners and in the synagogues where everyone can see them. I tell you the truth, that is all the reward they will ever get. 6 But when you pray, go away by yourself, shut the door behind you, and pray to your Father in private. Then your Father, who sees everything, will reward you.”
Those people who regularly tag themselves #blessed are pretty much doing the same thing: They’re thanking God publicly on the street corners and gathering places, where everyone can see them. They’re not so much thanking God as showing off their displays of wealth or good fortune, and receiving their ward that way.
Sound like a smart idea? Not to me. Maybe that stuff should be done with the door shut tight behind us.
