John 11.17-27.
Lazarus’s sisters Martha and Mary come up elsewhere in the gospels. It’s in a story where Mary sits at Jesus’s feet during a lesson, which was not appropriate for women in their sexist culture, and Martha tells Jesus to shoo her away and make Mary help her. But Jesus tells Martha to leave her be; that’s exactly where Mary belongs.
Although they don’t always realize why Mary’s the good. Often these sermons only talk about Mary worshiping at Jesus’s feet—as if Mary was only fangirling over Jesus while he was at the serious business of training apostles. That’s not how rabbinic lessons worked. The rabbi makes a statement; the students challenge the statement based on their bible knowledge; the rabbi defends his statement based on his bible knowledge. Those at the rabbi’s feet actively participated in this. Meaning Mary was challenging Jesus, quoting bible, and showing an intellectual capacity that impressed Jesus so much he wanted her there. Valued her there.
Generally the lessons go: Martha frets about so many things which are ultimately irrelevant, but Mary sits at Jesus’s feet. Let’s all be like Mary. Martha bad, Mary good. But no, Martha wasn’t bad—she just didn’t realize she likewise had the right to sit at the Lord’s feet, same as Mary, and learn from Jesus, instead of doing busywork like her culture expected her to.
Anyway, by the time Lazarus died, Martha apparently had learned from Jesus, ’cause she makes some of the more profound faith statements in the bible. Her faith didn’t go heave-ho after her brother died, like we see in so many people; it was strong as ever. When she met with Jesus, she didn’t scream at him about not being there to save Lazarus, as some of the lousier Jesus movies depict her. She still trusts him. She knows the Father listens to him; she still believes he can do something. She still calls him Christ, God’s son.
John 11.17-27 KWL 17 So, on arriving, Jesus finds Lazarus- is already four days in the sepulcher.
18 Bethany is near Jerusalem;- like 15 stadia. [2⅓ km]
19 Many of the Judeans came to Martha and Mary- so they might comfort them about their brother.
20 So Martha, once she hears Jesus arrives, meets him.- Mary is sitting in the house.
21 So Martha says to Jesus, “Master, if you were here,- my brother never would have died.
22 [But] I now know whatever you¹ ask God,- God will give you.¹”
23 Jesus tells her, “Your brother will rise again.”24 Martha tells him, “I know he’ll rise—- in the resurrection, on the last day.”
25 Jesus tells her, “I’m the resurrection.- I’m life.
- One who trusts in me, if they¹ die, will live.
26 And everyone who lives and trusts in me- ought never, ever die in the age to come.
- Do you¹ believe this?”
27 Martha tells him, “Yes, Master.- I’ve believed you’re¹ the Christ,
- God’s son coming into the world.”
Other Christians despair at their great losses, yet Martha still totally trusts Jesus. That’s huge. Let’s all be like Martha.
Finding the situation.
As I wrote previously,
I also pointed out these events likely happened in winter, which’d be why Jesus delayed. You don’t wanna spend a day walking as the rain’s pouring down.
But now that he’s at Bethany, he finds them in mourning, with many fellow Judeans visiting the family to comfort them. We know nothing about the family’s domestic situation—how old each of them were, their birth order, their marital situation, whether they were wealthy or poor, whether they were a politically connected family or considered noble. Bible doesn’t say any of these things, and Christians regularly speculate, and some of these speculations even make it into sermons, and people believe these speculations. I once had a silly argument with a Christian who insisted Lazarus was the very same guy from
I don’t think Lazarus’s family had to be politically connected for the Judeans to be there while the sisters were sitting shiva. If you’ve interacted with a community for any length of time—and you’re not a jerk—they’ll be there for you when you suffer a great loss. They were there for Lazarus’s sisters.
Now, I say “sitting shiva,” even though that’s an oversimplification of
At this point in the story, it was still the first week, so Mary and Martha were staying at home receiving visitors. Custom was that they came into the house to greet you. Later custom evolved that the mourners didn’t have to say anything to the guests, and the guests weren’t supposed to speak until spoken to. I like this custom; people who intend to comfort you often don’t know what to say, and don’t say anything which really would comfort you. Silence, like you see in Job’s friends,
But when Martha heard Jesus had arrived, she broke custom: She left the house and went outside to greet him. That’s how much she wanted him there.
The dialogue with Martha.
The first thing Martha tells Jesus is, “If you had been here, my brother wouldn’t have died; but even now I know God’ll give you whatever you ask.”
Now, maybe Martha believed this, and maybe she didn’t. When Jesus talks about Lazarus living again,
But when she brought up the resurrection at the End, Jesus makes one of those statements Christians consider his “I
John 11.25-26 KWL 25 Jesus tells her, “I’m the resurrection.- I’m life.
- One who trusts in me, if they¹ die, will live.
26 And everyone who lives and trusts in me- ought never, ever die in the age to come.
- Do you¹ believe this?”
Those who trust Jesus are getting resurrected. Are gonna live forever in the age to come.
Most bibles translate
Christians traditionally wanna downplay this fact—especially in eternal-life-affirming passages like this one!—but it is fact. If you trust Jesus, he’s absolutely gonna save you. If you don’t, your chances plummet. So don’t resist his salvation! Jesus is resurrection and life.
“Do you believe this?” Jesus concluded, and Martha said she most definitely does: “I’ve believed you’re the Christ, God’s son coming into the world.”
It seems to me after Jesus’s rebuke about Martha being fixated on the wrong thing, Martha accepted the correction, stopped her busywork, and listened to Jesus. And that’s why she trusted him so profoundly. She knew—better than some of his apostles!—who he was. She’d soon learn what more he could do.