1 Peter 3.1-7.
Just after Simon Peter addresses how household servants oughta live under difficult masters, next he deals with how wives oughta live under difficult husbands. And again, he’s speaking to people in a different culture, in the Roman Empire, where women lacked rights and couldn’t always escape their tyrannical spouses. They’d be suffering in the very same way a slave would under a despotic master. Does God care about them too, and have grace for them too? Of course he does.
And of course tyrannical spouses misuse this passage, and claim it justifies all their evil. It does not. Plenty of other scriptures warn ’em God doesn’t approve. Peter warns ’em too, in verse 7. In no way does any part of this passage negate those other passages, and in no way should you trust any pastor who suggests otherwise.
1 Peter 3.1-7 KWL 1 Likewise you² women submitting- to your² own men
- —and if a certain man doesn’t obey the word,
- perhaps they’ll be won over without the word
- through the lifestyle of their women,
2 seeing their holy lifestyle- in fear.
3 About them:- Don’t be externally like the world—
- with elaborately braided hair,
- decorated with gold,
- or dressing in conspicuous clothing.
4 Instead be like a private, thoughtful person,- looking into the incorruptible things
- of a gentle, quiet spirit,
- who is precious in God’s sight.
5 For holy women who hope in God- lived this way at some point,
- arranging themselves in submission
- to their own men,
6 like Sarah listened to Abraham- and calls him Master.
- You² who do good deeds are her daughters,
- and aren’t afraid of anything startling.
7 You² men likewise—- living with your² women
- with the understanding
- that they’re like a weak utensil;
- showing them honor
- like they’re your² fellow heirs of living grace
- —lest your² prayers be cut off.
I should remind you: Most bibles tend to translate women and men (Greek
Like most people dictating their letters, Peter uses some run-on sentences, out-of-place clauses, and forgets to use verbs. Makes translation and interpretation tricky—but not impossible! What he’s basically saying is: Christian women, be a good devout example for your crummy men. They may not listen to God’s word, but maybe despite this, they’ll listen to you; they’ll respect you, and be won over by your Christlike behavior. Hey, it’s been known to happen!